No the real question which boils down to this much like another topic I have replied to. Why exactly other then showing off higher then needed damage numbers do you feel the need to have everything maxed out? It isn't needed for any content period, I don't need to do any math to be able to tell you that much without a doubt. You say you have seen people one shot others with max soul but then they had to cc them and then do their combo or aerial etc which isn't a true one shot sorry. You can still grind Sacred Oils outside of events and trove, while it may not be as fast as most like it is still obtainable regardless. I know exactly what Pay to Win means and have probably played for much longer due to age then most of you guys / girls posting on this forum and so has a few of my clan members.
Pay to win means exactly that you pay for a item that gives you a unfair advantage that you can not obtain by normal means. The truth hurts but there is nothing that they sell in Trove, Hongmoon Store that one player can't obtain by normal means outside of outfits, adorements, vanity pet skins but they offer no advantage over others so not sure why I bothered to mention. The time frame to obtain items by normal means while very far from ideal, still doesn't truly make this game Pay to Win. I'm sorry it might be hard for you to accept that truth but it is there.
You have had classes broken in one way or another since the start of the game which there will always be some issue involved in unrestricted pvp, mainly open world and battlegrounds where your gear matters. Even with some skill adjustments to bring everyone more inline with one another you will still have issues regardless. Assassins aren't truly invisible, use a directional attack watch their shadow you can still make out where they are. Destroyer spin? Knock them down. Warden CC immune? Don't fight them in their blade ward. KFM well yea they pretty broken right now but can still be beat. Learn each class, how they play and you will do so much better in pvp. Also, being hit by a CC then chain combo of skills still isn't one shot whether the person in question is equal to gear or not, it comes down to reaction time and knowing what they plan on doing and countering it before they get the chance but that is when your computer / ping comes into play as well. Have you ever watched competition level pvp for Blade and Soul?
Also, since I didn't touch base on it and like to cover everything you took the time to type about Raven, Storm Dragon weapons etc. can still catch up due to the reductions being put in place with the upcoming update to cut cost by half on Legendary Jewels (referring to the current 10 gold jewels). Please don't compare this game to warframe and they are both completely different genre and layout etc..
All in all it just seems to me that you want to complain because your unable or unwilling to swipe for the current max gear, want it easier with less effort invested and want to say anyone that offers in remote valid point / post is in the wrong and as you say, full of bs or a liar. So, in the end I don't take offense to anything you say and hopefully you stop being so one sided about your arguments when replying.
PS. Wanted to add this. I have yet to spend a penny and your telling me I have reached past your ap if your currently 1500 (took you 2 years) and I hit that in 6 months as free? Maybe that is your issue right there, not playing enough.