AriaEnia Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 Hehe the only solution is to find yourself a woman who loves gaming, like my husband did, he found me. Funny thing is yeah we fought over game items, we fought because his main quest was already ahead of me, we fought because he played female chars, etc. We played FF XIV happily untik Dark Souls 3 came out. He left me to play that game. He asked me to play Dark Soul too but mehh, everything is so ugly over there, and I can't stand horror. And finally I found myself playing BNS, which is filled with pretty things. But now I'm "semi-quitting" this game because RNG screwed me over so many times. But I really2 love the outfits in this game, I might want to collect them all, even though I'm not playing anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Udunnome Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 A girl/woman will only notice what you are doing , and complain about it, if she's bored. Keep her busy and you'll have all the time to play games. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weltenteiler Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 Hey there sad man! Gaming female here! If you got a gf or a wife that will leave you for playing a video game, you clearly had the wrong one. There are many girls out there (not in percent, but in individuals) who also like video games / mmos. See I once had a boyfriend who was not into playing. It was a hell of torture this relationship. I NEED a gamer-boyfriend, otherwise it would not work out. So well, difficult to find a gamer-girl since they are mostly sitting in front of their computers, but if you want to spend most of your time playing games, you should find someone who shares your hobby or at least has no problem with it. See my current boyfriend (2,5 years of relationship) often just watches let's-plays which I consider a total waste of time, but it is his decision. Why would I need to break up with him because of this? As long as he plays blade and soul with me sometimes I am happy. Of course Gaming should NEVER be more important than spending time with a girlfriend when it is needed. If there's a porblem she needs help with you should be there for her. Depending on the problem after the instance or during it. If she wants to go outside you should not say "I planned on spending the next 6 hours gaming", but rather "let me finish this instance and then we will go?" well.. long story short... I think you just need to find the right one who shares or at least accepts your hobbies. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsuki no Koibito II Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 1 hour ago, Grimoir said: ..and a lot more. See only benefits LMAO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grimoir Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 4 minutes ago, Tsuki no Koibito II said: LMAO what? its true! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grimoir Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 Just now, Tsuki no Koibito II said: I agree, its just that the OP doesn't seem to be ready to face that fact ;) Its either that or staying single xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arohk Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 3 hours ago, B93R said: Seriously how does the married men cope with this? play a male character and not a hot female character, she will get jelly and leave you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsuki no Koibito II Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 3 minutes ago, Grimoir said: its true! I agree, its just that the OP doesn't seem to be ready to face that fact ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyGamerluv Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 I am a woman that has had this problem in my long term relationship. I have always loved gaming and my guy hasnt. We have broke up for 6 months due to games and now back together. When he gets on my nerves I just log on. But I am threading lightly on bns. I will log on only when he is at work lol. I wish he liked to play games QQ. BTW Grimoir there also women that would be the same way ~.^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grimoir Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 9 minutes ago, LadyGamerluv said: I am a woman that has had this problem in my long term relationship. I have always loved gaming and my guy hasnt. We have broke up for 6 months due to games and now back together. When he gets on my nerves I just log on. But I am threading lightly on bns. I will log on only when he is at work lol. I wish he liked to play games QQ. BTW Grimoir there also women that would be the same way ~.^ i know there are women also but lets face facts...thats just too weird :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsuki no Koibito II Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 Guys, I'll give you the secrets agents technic: M.I.C.E M is for Money : give her money so she can go shopping. I is for Ideology : state that it's your way of life (dont fight or argue directly, turn it like it was some kind of trauma). C is for Compromise : she doesn't want you to farm the new dungeon? Ok, well you are not sure to have dinner with her parents. E is for Ego : *with puppy eyes* she is so good to LET you play, you are so lucky to have such a wonderful GF (must be repeat everyday at least twice times, one in the morning, one in the afternoon). Enjoy ! XD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weltenteiler Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 5 minutes ago, Tsuki no Koibito II said: Guys, I'll give you the secrets agents technic: M.I.C.E M is for Money : give her money so she can go shopping. I is for Ideology : state that it's your way of life (dont fight or argue directly, turn it like it was some kind of trauma). C is for Compromise : she doesn't want you to farm the new dungeon? Ok, well you are not sure to have dinner with her parents. E is for Ego : *with puppy eyes* she is so good to LET you play, you are so lucky to have such a wonderful GF (must be repeat everyday at least twice times, one in the morning, one in the afternoon). Enjoy ! XD As a woman I can say this will result in a HUGE BIG ASS CATASTROPHIC argument. The C part will not quite work out xD But I appreciate your creativity xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyGamerluv Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 Lol Grimoir @Tsuki I really like the M(money) part, but the true key is balance. I have blatantly said to my guy, "this is my hobby and this will never change" so it's up to him if he wants to deal with it or not. Either way I will move on. So he is dealing with it, i jus dont no-life the games anymore. Plus I think it's easier to be a gaming female vs a gaming male in relationships. We know what to do to make u guys shut up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DomiSotto Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 When you are married for long enough for a marriage to become symbiotic, it's fine. You live and let live. Heh, I've been married for almost 20 years, and we haven't argued for over a decade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grimoir Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 1 minute ago, LadyGamerluv said: Lol Grimoir @Tsuki I really like the M(money) part, but the true key is balance. I have blatantly said to my guy, "this is my hobby and this will never change" so it's up to him if he wants to deal with it or not. Either way I will move on. So he is dealing with it, i jus dont no-life the games anymore. Plus I think it's easier to be a gaming female vs a gaming male in relationships. We know what to do to make u guys shut up. Oh do you? :P anyways i came up with the perfect option: Make a female character that looks just like your girlfriend and tell her you invest so much time in the game because she is there and you dont want her to be alone! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AriaEnia Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 28 minutes ago, Grimoir said: Buy her a new phone with candy crush! or let her re-decorate the living room....thats like a month of free time for you. And whenever she talks just nod a few times, say "yes, mhm" there you go! Haha this actually worked for me for a while, but instead of Candy Crush, it's Hay Day XD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iCream Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 thats why my husband is gamer,like me ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natose Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 7 hours ago, B93R said: Seriously how does the married men cope with this? I'm married with a 19month old. You have to balance out your real life with you gaming life. On my days off, I watch our kid. I'll play with him, feed him then put him down for his nap. Then I'll play till its time to pick up my wife. When I pick her up, I'll take her anywhere she wants to go so when we come home shes happy and I can play on my PC. Its all about compromise and taking care of your family needs. Happy Wife = Happy Life Wife Aggro = No Gaming 6 hours ago, Shautru said: Gamers should marry/date gamers. There's a reason the term "wife-aggro" was coined MANY years ago. ;) any married man has seen this, we learn from mistakes and move on. 6 hours ago, Els said: Never heard this term before :o your single then i'm guessing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DomiSotto Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 1 hour ago, Natose said: I'm married with a 19month old. You have to balance out your real life with you gaming life. In a few months it won't be that easy. I stopped gaming when ours was about 2 yo and started taking incredible interest in the games. They look like cartoons. A bit later, there is a whirlwind of activities that you gotta get your kid engaged in, or you will likely spend more time extracting her from chandeliers, and intercepting the suicidal dashes towards unknown goals. I re-started playing only after the kiddo turned 6 or 7 and I've acquired a firm belief that the humanity's survival is a greatest miracle and that I will never be the same woman I used to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuxDeadly Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 Quote On my days off, I watch our kid. I'll play with him, feed him then put him down for his nap. Then I'll play till its time to pick her up. When I pick her up, I'll take her anywhere she wants to go Congrats on a baby that changes gender while napping... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natose Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 sorry ment pick up my wife from work, you know how your brain thinks faster than your fingers sometimes also if you would of read the whole thing you would of seen I was talking about my wife and the kid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grimoir Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 14 minutes ago, Natose said: sorry ment pick up my wife from work, you know how your brain thinks faster than your fingers sometimes also if you would of read the whole thing you would of seen I was talking about my wife and the kid. I found the gender changing baby cooler :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H1GHV0LT4G3 Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 8 hours ago, B93R said: Seriously how does the married men cope with this? Look man, I know it's corny but there are plenty of fish in the sea. Over three billion girls in the world, but there is only one BnS. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YamiKokennin Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 My clan has married couple and couple. They coupe with this because they both are gamer :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shautru Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 I have an idea. There's match.com and eharmony.com and farmersonly.com .... someone needs to make gamersonly.com. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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