well you see noone will take u to higher dungeons without minimum gear being: legendary draken accessories, lower than dawnforged 3 and without the most important - SHIELD FUSES FOR CRIT on your BT Shields or higher(literally most important thing that people usually ignore)
Do EC/DT/NF when it's in daily challenge for quest that gives cores, should be enough to get bracelet + Belt and neck(you will need to farm peaches)
for weapon farm celestial basin until you're dawn 3
also you might need BT accessories to be taken into higher dungs, so grab some pug from faction
save up a bit of gold and buy gem powders and hexagonal gems from that, elemental obsydian gem from dragon trader from daily challenge currency
That's it for basic gear
you can do up to ST with basic gear i listed above, just need to learn mechs, get your own party and just be patient
breakthrough storm soul and pet aura you get from story, especially pet aura
also search up for guides for your character's rotation and train it a bit in f12, that's very important, mashing random buttons won't help (you can find it on bns academy discord that you can google up or grab invite link from bns reddit)
check as well which badges you need, mystic badge you can grab from basin, as well as normal one if any of those benefit your character
that's minimal effort you could spit out of yourself for people to acknowledge you
read/watch guides for dungeons and you shouldnt have ANY problem to get party up to HH, after that I am aware that may take some time to gather party
getting clan helps as well, just dont expect to get carried while you didn't put in any effort
ps. the stuff I listed helped a lot of new players that I talked to so far to accomodate the game, so dont say people dont get help