Just change to other classes if you want to relax. Everyone expects you to tank, and everyone is focus on your mistake. You make a mistake, they blame on you. They make a mistake, they tried to put it away. So, you are the one that bring the outcome in PVE dungeons. For PVP, BM is not a wise choice. You look at BNS tournaments. Who is using BM to fight in tournament? The answer is no one. BM become a relic, a forgetten class nowaday. If they dont revamp BM skills and power, BM classes will be extinct class soon.