I'm not sure what server you guys are on, but here in Yunwa I have only ever encountered two toxic people. One was mad we didn't help him with his quest that was also in our dungeon and another was mad because I was trying lab at 376, when he had 374 AP.
Other than that, I've pretty much had positive experiences with the community. Random people offering to show me how to ani-cancel, giving me a few silver of their own accord when I was a newbie, helping with dungeons, etc.
Runescape's was better, I bet. :P